The Importance of Pretty Panties

One of the best things about dating is the excitement. There is something really thrilling about knowing that someone finds you attractive, that someone wants you.  So we date, get in a relationship and then…something fades.  We tell ourselves that our relationship has changed into something more comfortable and assure ourselves that this is a new level, a better level, that it’s normal because the fire and desire can’t last forever.

Yes, relationships change and it is wonderful to know that you have a partner that will love you forever – it is comfortable.  But being comfortable doesn’t mean that we have to forgo the excitement. 

The newness may have faded but the attraction does not – he still, and always will, want to get you naked. 

Really the thing that’s changed is the way we feel about ourselves – we forget how sexy we really are.  We trade our lingerie for terrycloth robes, our tight jeans for sweats, our sexy underwear for cotton briefs…And then blame our husbands for not making us feel sexy anymore. 

Wanna revive that inner hottie?  Begin by wearing pretty panties, and here’s why:

1. Cute panties are the antidote for frumpiness.

2. People will wonder why you’ve got that silly grin on your face.

3. You don’t have to worry about being embarrassed if you get into an accident  and end up being rushed to the hospital– you know the medical staff will be adequately impressed.

4. Your husband will forgive the sweatshirt and flannel pants if he knows there is something better underneath.

5. It soothes the embarrassment of an accidental flash. Yes, it’s still embarrassing but a flash in unattractive underwear reaches mortification level.

6. There is just something wrong about anyone under the age of 50 wearing panties that go all the way to the waist.  Full coverage is fine, but keep it below the bellybutton.

7. You want to feel exciting, vibrant, and saucy…not like a character from the Golden Girls.

8. There is a reason guys enjoy Victoria’s Secret commercials. They are visual creatures; give them something worth looking at.

9. It will make you feel sexy.

10. Think of it is a present. We all know the real gift is inside but it just seems more exciting when it’s nicely wrapped.