Happy Friday

I got a message from someone that told me that my thighs didn’t actually look like thunder thighs in the picture I posted the other day. And you know I just couldn’t go without acknowledging that.  First, thank you. I totally appreciate the lies.  Second, if they didn’t, let me apologize. I didn’t mean to intentionally mislead anyone with that photo.  I’ve just mastered the art of staging my body in such a way to downplay my flaws.  It’s a skill I’ve spent years perfecting.

Just know, if I’m gonna lie, it will always be in my favor. So trust me, when I say I have big thighs it’s because I have big thighs. And apparently really freckly legs.  Like you could spend a day playing connect the dots…print out a picture and try it, it would fun. 

You know, I don’t ever remember having dotted legs, but this age thing…it does mean things to the body.

You know what else is mean? The fact that I'm working on this beautiful Friday. Seriously want to skip out and just go enjoy the day.  Unfortunately, my sense of responsibility is stronger than my love for fun.

This time anyway.

 

Ghetto Girl

My best friend gets on to me all the time because I tell on myself – when I mess up, do something silly, or get in embarrassing situations. She tells me all the time that people wouldn’t know if I didn’t tell them. Which is true. But I guess I have no shame, because I share anyway.

Which is why I’m sharing this.  This, ladies and gentleman, is what I call ghettofashion. 

 

 

 

Yes, my pants are being held up by safety pins.

In my defense, I don’t usually wear my pants like this. So let me explain.

While second grade should be a time of happiness and sunshine, for us this school year will forever be known as The Year From Hell.  Because the school bus picks M up from her daycare at 6:30. Yes. Picks her up at 6:30.  Which means we have to leave the house at 6:15.

Do you have any idea how hard it is to get two kids up and ready and out the door by 6:15?

Well I do. And there isn’t anything happy or sunshiney about it.

Our mornings are down to an exact science and we have zero minutes to spare. So when I put on my pants this morning and they were too big I didn’t have time to find anything else to wear. Literally, I was being yelled out to come down stairs, that we were already running late. 

So as quickly as I could I tried to find a belt. Only one would fit through the belt loops and it was bright pink. Let’s not even talk about the fact that I’m 36 and have no business even owning a bright pink belt…this belt would have been okay except my shirt is a little sheer and you could see it.  It looked all kinds of ridiculous.  So I ripped it off, grabbed two pins and literally ran downstairs.

And as awkward as it is to be pinned into my pants, this has actually turned out to be okay. For one, I’m all kinds of pumped that my pants were too big. Like hello, who doesn’t want that to happen? And secondly, my shirt is long enough to cover the pins so it looks completely normal. You would never even know…if I hadn’t told you.

So now you know…I’m a ghettofashionista.  I would hang my head in shame but I'm too busy trying to keep these pants up.

Thunder Thighs

Friday as I was changing to go to the gym I noticed there was a hole in my shorts. In the rear. I put them on and sure enough…the hole was right smack in the middle of my left butt cheek. Unfortunately, I could tell this wasn’t a new hole. And even more unfortunate than that was the fact that about 90% of my underwear are thongs. Or tbacks. (Yes, there is a difference between the two. You don’t spend two years working in the lingerie department and not learn something.)  Which means for I don’t know how long, I’ve been going into the gym and baring my butt. Just a teeny tiny little bit of it, but still…

No wonder I’ve been getting a bunch of high-fives!

So my dilemma – wear them regular and expose everyone but feel awkward because now I know I’m exposing them?  Or roll the shorts up enough that my shirt covers the hole but create booty shorts in the process? I opted for booty shorts.

It wasn’t pretty.

So today I wore a new pair of shorts. Those didn’t work out too well either. Because I totally have thunder thighs. Not like “shaking your house apart thunder”, more like “rattling the windows thunder”.  But regardless, still thunder.

Here comes the thunder!

When I was young and I started to get that little curve in the inside of my thighs, I thought it made me soft and womanly. Now I realize it only makes my shorts ride up and bunch in unattractive ways.

I hope, as with other parts of my body, that all this treadmill work will fix that little problem. I mean, I know it’s all about being healthy but if I’m gonna bust my butt every day for an hour, I want to see a little difference. Something besides my boobs shrinking.

Because honestly, I really am trying here. I’m up to an 8 minute run with a 5 minute walk and then another 8 minute run.  You have no idea how long 8 minutes is until you try to run it. Longest 8 minutes of my life.  And it’s only gonna get harder. When I get discouraged, I look forward on the program to see what’s coming up. It kinda keeps me motivated – like, hey, at least I’m not having to run 20 minutes straight. Yet.

So looks like I need to go buy another pair of shorts. While I appreciate support, it just seems all kinds of wrong to hear my thighs clap for me…

Day Late

I'm really grateful that I got to go to Chicago last week, however, it also meant that I missed the biggest thing that has ever happened in our town. Except for when the state capitol seal was "stolen" in 1910. And trust me, that was a big deal. 103 years later and people around here are still bitter about it.  So I guess technically I missed the second biggest thing to ever happen - a Mumford and Sons concert!

The city has been planning it for at least 6 months and it was suppose to be a huge, weekend long festival.  They were setting-up a couple of days before we left and we were already experiencing crazy traffic.  Not sure how they fit all those people into our sleepy little town but apparently they did. And I heard it was an awesome concert.

Equally upsetting, maybe even a little more so, was that a few weeks before the conference I saw some advertisements that Kevin James was coming to campus for a performance. I love Kevin James - he is hilarious! I am sure his stand-up was great. So I jumped on the computer to get us some tickets and was stoked when I realized they were really reasonable. But then I realized his one day performance was the day we flew out.  Really? That stinks!

Then when we were in Chicago we're walking down the street when we see a billboard advertising...Kevin James!  So I run over to check and...he's there the day after we leave!

I guess it's like so many other things in life - it doesn't matter how bad you want it, sometimes you just gotta accept that it's not meant to be.

Lucky Leak

Had a heck of a day!  It was a Monday all the way around. By 8:30 a.m. I was asking for a redo and the day continued to nose dive. I kept thinking eventually it would turn around but apparently no one else got that memo. So things continued to hit the fan. And then kind of land in big plops all around me.

On a positive note, I was dying to go to the gym and work out some of the frustration of the day. This is huge because I usually work out my frustration through a large order of fries. And occasionally sex. But usually fries.

So the fact that I was havin a day and still motivated? That was a gold star moment. And I'm so glad I went. It was SO good for me.

I've been doing this 10K training program (run/walk) but after I'm done I usually walk an additional 15-20 minutes so I can get my full hour in. While I'm doing the program I just kind of zone out. When I'm running I focus on breathing and the rhythm of my run. And then during the walk I just try to recover. I'm not really paying much attention to anything else - run, breathe, walk, run, breathe, walk. With a few intermediate gasping wheezes  and a lot of sweat thrown in for good measure.

So during the last 15-20 minutes, when I'm just walking to walk, I catch a little news or whatever happens to be playing at the time. Today it was all the coverage from the Washington shootings.  I'm sure it was on the entire time, I just hadn't noticed.

It really put my day in perspective. At least I hadn't gone to work and been shot. I survived the day and was able to go home, love on my family, and bitch about a bad day. What an amazing gift. 

It made all the stuff in my day just seem so trivial and pointless. Like any of that will even matter next year or even next week. Who cares about any of that other stuff, right?

So I drove home filled with gratitude and determination to remember to count my blessings. And I drove straight home to a leaky house. A leaky house that has a BRAND NEW roof on it.

BRAND. NEW.

Like 27 days old new. Like several thousand dollars new. Like what the hell new.

Oh I see what you're trying to do here, God. Well played. Very well played.

And I get it.  So leak or not, let me just say how happy I am to at least have a house. Because I could be sitting out somewhere in a leaky cardboard box. And that's not exactly the kind of leak that can be fixed...

Chi-town

I know I promised updates on my Chicago conference but I have something else on my mind.

I've been thinking a lot about relationships. How strange relationships can be sometimes. Something happened recently that helped me realize that sometimes the relationship we think we have is little more than our own one-sided perception.

It's a strange feeling to think you're good friends with someone and then to realize you're really not. Sometimes all it takes is watching that person interact with someone else to realize you don't even make the top 10. 

What can you do?  Cross your arms, stomp your feet and demand that they find you witty, smart and charming? As good as I am at forcing my way into things, friendship doesn't work like that. And I'm sure I wouldn't want it to.  But it makes me wonder - how was I so far off the mark? Clearly, I got this one all wrong.

And I'm sure it won't be the last time I overvalue a friendship.  For some reason, I have a hard time realizing that not everyone likes me as much as much as I expect them to. Yeah, I can't figure that one out either...lol.

So tomorrow starts a new week and I'm bringing with me some new ideas from the conference. It really was some great material. Now I just need about 3 more people on staff to make all this stuff happen... sometimes having the ideas but lacking the resources and time really sucks. But I'm gonna try, gonna try to put some of this stuff in place because I've never given up hope that I could create the best program in the state. That's been my vision from day one and I've never lost sight of that. Everything I do is to try to move towards that goal.  Sometimes it's exhausting. And frustrating. And seems so pointless and impossible.

Then I go to a conference. And I feel like I need to make all this happen. I feel like anything less then the best is cheating my students. I feel like I need more strategic planning, more outcome analysis, more understanding, more implementation, more, more, more...which is way I'm way more productive and creative after conference. And my staff kinda hates me because I create more work for everyone.

The hubby came with me to this one. He'd never been to Chicago so thought he would tag along.  He really didn't venture out too much though.  I was in sessions most the time and he's not really adventurous (or into big cities) so he spent the majority of his time in a hotel room. Not sure it was very exciting for him but we were able to see a few sights during some down time.  I like Chicago - but I like big cities so it was fun for me. 

As promised, here are a few picture highlights:



Even in Chicago, it's Sooner time!

Love these girls!

Listening to legends - amazing.

Navy Pier ferris wheel



We were way high!

On the ledge of one of the tallest buildings in the world. Just a little freaky!
  

Don't look down!
 

Bitter beer face from the WORST beer I have ever had!

And yet, I kept trying to choke it down.

I give up, just give me some water!

So lucky to have these amazing ladies as friends!





Buried

Just returned from a conference in Chicago...buried today in work but will definitely post pics and updates soon.  I know, I know - blogger of the year award.  Add it to my list of imperfections - somewhere under Painfully Stubborn and Embarrassingly Bad Speller.

One thing I do have time to tell you - I LOVE my job! 

The rest will have to wait until I have a minute to breathe!